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    May 01

    男朋友的准则

    她可以欺负你,但你绝对不可以欺负她,因为她虽然欺负你,但是每次有什么好东西,她第一个想到的就是你!
    要是她朝你哭,你要不厌其烦地哄她,直到她破涕为笑!
    不要老是在她问“去那里比较好”,“吃什么”等等的时候说“随便”,这不等于是你在迁就她, 只表示你没有心思搭理她。
    要经常对她说“我爱你”,否则她会假设你不爱她。
    她做错事情的时候教训她不要紧,最重要的是在那之后要哄她。
    发脾气时不要不理她,不要给时间她让她冷静,其实她完全不需要时间冷静。
    在她想你时,争分夺秒地挤出时间与她约会。
    两个人都有发火的权利,但不能同一天。如果那一天她发火了,那你就不可以发火了。
    与女友吵架每次陈述不得超过3分钟(含),音量不得超过20分贝(含)。
    在她心情遭透,蛮横发脾气的时候,抱抱她,而不是和她理论。
    她身上有很多缺点,她已经够苦恼了,请不必随时向她提醒。
    女友不讲理是撒娇而不是撒野。 
    April 06

    4.05 NO. Ten

    Q:

          Computers are widely used in education, and some people think teacher will not play an important role in the classroom. To what extent do you agree?

    A:

          No one can disavow the teachers’ importance since this career has been exist for 5000 thousand years as no teacher can avoid being influenced by the computers’ widely usage. Though in some extent we no more have real teachers standing in front of the platform in one of our study life, various “teachers” are playing the significant role in our study and they can never be replaced by anything.

          Just as the computer and network technology develops in a magnificent celerity, the uses of the remote education and internet-based test or teaching are being widely and quickly spread to the world. Scholars discovered years ago that all of us, no matter old or young, fashion or outdated, love to fall in some brand new thing especially in study which always been considered as a dump boring thing. Computers’ arrival will be more fascinating to the people than real human’s reading or discussing face to face. But, when new things become no more new, real human kind teacher are more popular than the dead machines for they can communicate with each other lively.

          During the time we are getting used to computer’s implements in education, we shall never forget the internet-based or computer-based teaching materials are designed by teachers, real, finest, experienced teachers. Without their advices and instructions, software designer can’t be success in his work. Important role is totally not enough for their assiduity and diligences, they deserve in so much uppermost role of the teaching process and adequate dignity.

          Nevertheless, just before and with the information society’s forming, teachers have to pay more time and money in learning or adapting the computer’s uses in education territory. Or else, they may fall behind the step of modern teaching.

    April 03

    4.03 NO. Nine

    Q:

    The costs of medical health care are increasing all the time. Governments are finding it difficult to balance the health care budget. Should citizens be totally responsible for their own health costs and take out private health insurance, or is it better to have a comprehensive health care system which provides free health services for all? Discuss.

    A:

          It has been a debated issue that the government is spending so much in public medical health care. Meanwhile, governments’ holding or not holding this responsibility to establish a comprehensive health care system is what we concerned by the public. I am taking the opinion that both government and citizens are responsible for their health and medical care costs.

          As a matter of fact, health cost has become a very disburse point of government and citizens. Government need to distribute a great deal of budget for public medical services and infrastructure. Big major hospitals and community clinics are being set up by the appropriation bills which are allocated by the government. And the country has been spending too much on it if it provides free health services besides the noted services. As to this matter, citizens should take out private health insurance in some certain extent together with government’s farewell policies and that will make the health care costs look capable to the poor and helpless men.

          Despite the appropriation from the government, citizens, on the other hand, should take some responsible for their own better health care. Poor and helpless men’s basic farewell is the major point of the health care policy. Wealthy people are having no stress or pressure in medical cost while paupers are facing the crucial problem with it. If the wealthy people can pay a sustainable fee for their medical care which doesn’t mean anything to them, government can put the budget in somewhere else to make life more comfortable and convenient, and that’s what we are anticipating.

          In brief, I am standing to the opinion that both government and citizens carry a appropriate percent of the health cost, and, of course, the government should spend the money which be saved from citizens on the public health infrastructure. That is the way to keep the balance of government and citizens.

    3.31 NO. Eight

    Q:

          Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? The university should not provide so much theoretical knowledge but give students more practical training. Use specific reasons and details to support your answer.

    A:

          For such a long period of time, there have been arguments about whether university should or should not provide students with practical training while teaching theoretical knowledge. As to this matter I hold the opinion that it’s university’s function to provide students theoretical knowledge, but not necessarily duty to give them career training.

          The first thing we should acknowledge is that university is set up for higher theoretical education while technical schools are designed for those who want practical trainings. University is the significant place for public technology’s researches with the academicians’ learning to research. As an undergraduate student, I am sure that 4 years are totally not enough for a student who takes the whole of theoretical both with practical cultivating. The principles and professors must choose one of them to make sure that we student can have a successful achievement in either theoretical knowledge or practical experiences. Obviously, according to the university’s obligations, theoretical knowledge is the one that administrators choose.

          Moreover, it’s an urgent thing for us undergraduate and postgraduate students who are planning for the job to take practical training courses for we don’t have any close training before. It’s a big challenge to apply for a job without any working or practical experiences. So, we may have the training contained into our experiment courses and lessons so that we can learn some in the simulating experiments. And that will be easier for us to adapt for the rapidly developing society and eventually find a job.

          In summary, I am holding the point that university should do more in theoretical teaching while take considerable actions or planning to support some basic compatible practical training for who need it as well. University just need to offers what the society wants and cultivate more outstanding elements for the public.

    April 02

    3.29 NO. Seven

    Q:

          Many young people find their first day at high school or college difficult, because they feel very alone. What do you think are the other difficulties they face on their first day? What can schools and colleges do to make them feel more comfortable?

    A:

          Generally speaking, everybody who comes to a brand new place must feel very lonely before they make new friends there. Unfortunately, not only this little issue but many others questions and problems will come after that.

          Besides the lonely feeling that freshmen face, there are a plenty of difficulties to resolve and settle. I think the first one is that financial problem. Because of many young people have never managed budgets themselves in their early years of lives, they need to carry on themselves as adults. Certain money will be given to the teenagers and they need to defend themselves from the temptations of spending the accommodations fees in whatever they want, just as beautiful clothing or delicious dishes. The second thing they need to pay attention to is how to get along with their roommates. It’s about their four-year or even six-year’s harmony in the living place. First impression is a very crucial work to take care of in the first day. But the very last thing they need to care about is that learning to know how to use the facilities of the colleges.
          Based on the mentioned difficulties, schools and colleges shall take many actions to solve them. First of all, psychologists should be sent to the freshmen and guide them out of the lonely and worrying predicament. Secondly, Administrators of the schools need to give students more course and resident tutorship for everything is new to them. Thirdly, upperclassmen should be forwardly organized to help them by teaching some uses of the school or giving advisements for course choosing.

          Eventually, schools and colleges are playing a very crucial part of the teenagers. They shall give more humanism considerations in helping and loving the students. The actions I noted are very basic but not enough if nothing else was taken to them. What’s more, students are schools’ treasure just as customers to the shops that they deserving good services. But meanwhile, they need to live for themselves.

    March 29

    3.27NO. Six

    Q:

           Advertisement plays a major role on TV in developed market economies. Despite the benefits of such information, many people are critical of the role of TV advertising. Write an essay analyzing the positive and negative effects of TV advertisement.

    A:

           Currently, TV advertisement has been occupied TV’s 20 to 30 percent of time and been the second major constituent of TV shows following the original programs. It may also additionally take the half or even the whole time of a channel and we called that channel direct distribute channel.

           As we can see, profit which comes from TV advertisement is all-important to TV stations regular running. We can never expect that TV stations survive the none-advertisement program for they can only get a very little endowment from the appropriation of government. As long as we want to watch TV program, we need to face the reality of TV advertisement. More over, as we are staying in market economy, merchants and companies need the widest media, TV, to present their products and goods to the customers.  Advertisement of TV helps the economy’s growing by promoting the goods and money’s circulation and has merchants and companies earned their profits.

           Nonetheless, if TV advertisement has taken a part that exceeds to limitation which we audience can’t take it, it will be a disaster for the public. Many audiences have encountered a situation that a continuous TV advertisement makes us feel so bothering or even nausea for the simple reason we watch TV for entertainments. TV program is a public service and it should never let the public feel bad or it won’t be an employable servant.

    For these reasons, TV advertisement shall never more than a limitation that we can bear but need to save a certain percent for their daily running at the same time. It will be a huge success if the supervisors of the TV channel choose an appropriate percentage and that is what we are anticipating.

    March 28

    3.24 NO. Five

    Q:

    Traffic and housing problems in major cities would be solved by moving big companies, factories and their employees to the countryside. Do you agree or disagree?

    A:

           Many developing countries is facing a terrible traffic and housing problems in big cities, especially in China. Moving stuff to countryside maybe a useful way in one place but in the same time may mess up the city’s administration and supervision. It depends on every situation. I hardly agree with it without some specific conditions.

           Recently, an official media acclaimed in news that the true murder of major cities traffic was drivers’ violation of the city traffic bans. Drivers’ deregulations were the truly main reason of the chaos in city traffic along with illogical design of the roads. Except some big roads, most of the city’s roads are small roads with only 1 or 2 lines per direction. What if moving companies, factories and staffs to countryside without improving the city’s road’s infrastructure and forcing drivers to learn more about rules of traffic? It must cost countless money and gain no achievements.  

    On the other hand, housing problems are caused by rapid increasing of city populations. Those new comers consist of new born baby and outside immigration. Taking simple actions to move companies, factories and related people to suburb will not work when another new wave of population comes. Many developing countries are confronting urbanization population’s growing while developed countries facing a serious population’s decreasing and suburbanization. Communities and buildings should be well overall arranged by city government but not just simply moving people to suburban areas.

    Eventually, city management is a very complex work and it’s about citizens’ significant residence and traveling. None simple policy or action would solve such a complicated problem. Many more forestallment should be taken to harmonize this action so that we can achieve a satisfying consequence.

    3.22 NO. Four

    Q:

    Does modern technology make life more convenient, or was life better when technology was simpler? What’s your opinion?

    A:

           With no doubt that modern life are much more convenient than the ancient era. Though we may be suffering the pressure of surviving from the complex daily life and complicated society, we may never fear to confront them, Life is absolutely better than the passed time.

    Simple, in other words, is called boring and humdrum in many situations. Our ancestors were trapped by the mountains, sea and the sky while we are traveling all around the world to taste the world’s fantasy. They got up at six o’clock everyday and worked a whole year without adequate rest to fertilize the crops or vegetables which they need for survival.

    Obviously, we don’t need or even like this kind of simple. Simple is something that frees us from the daily laboring or reiteration and leave us time to relax and get down to something interesting. High technology has been helping us since the Industrial Revolution. Life is getting more and more convenient every second as the result of the technology’s fantastic speed of development. Washing machine, refrigerator, AC, TV and many other labor releasing machines constitute the convenient life we have today and make it fabulous. 

    Besides, the most important part of better life is that we carrying no pressure or stress in our minds. It is very inanition for someone to make a simpler life by abandoning the technology or refusing to use it. The best way we shall choose is that learning the skills of saving the soul from pressure, laugh more, smile more and enjoy the convenient life that technology brings.

    3.20 NO. Three

    Q:

    If a five-year-old commits a crime, should the parents be held responsible and punished? What is the age of the child do you think parents should not take the responsibility?

    A:

           I am so astonished to find that a five-year-old can commit a crime and I barely imagine how terrible the family could bring a simple and unaffected baby up to a criminal. It is obvious that the parents take the most responsibility and deserve a punishment.

    Know as a common sense, every baby is just like a pure white paper which doesn’t have any social color or paint on it. They only know some very natural feeling such as hungry, thirsty and painfulness. Therefore, it is a very decisive time to cultivate their characters. Besides, there was an old saying in Chinese that 3-year-old can show the whole life. From this point of view, we can gain an absolute conclusion that many evidences have showing the importance of the first three or four year’s cultivation of a baby. The parents here are playing crucial roles in this part of the children’s life and it’s their obligation that they should guide the children’s behaviors and let them know what is good and wrong. Since this is parents’ responsibility, it is their breach of duty to connive their children or even let them commit crimes. Parents should be held punished for their misprisions.

    Nevertheless, when the children have grown up to be adults, parents should no more take the responsibilities of their kids’ crimes, in other words, kids held the responsible themselves, in particular when they reach the age of 16. According to the common knowledge, people who are 16 years old have built their own philosophy except some psychopaths or madmen. They can judge whether they are acting against the law in a very easy, precise way and method even though they may have some violence tendency. Just as they’ve got enough information to know the basic laws and owns capabilities to judge it, they should be treated as independent juristic people and play like every common citizen. Parents no longer have to be punished by laws but ethics and affectionateness for their children’s crime.

    As has been noted, parents should pay for their misprisions of educating their children or misguiding where their children are only five-year-old. Yet, they don’t have to pay for children’s crimes after the reach of children’s sixteen-year-old. Wish every family would never encounter this tragedy.

    3.17 NO. Two

    Q:

    Some people think that children should be taught to compete, but others think that children should be taught to co-operate that become more useful adults. Express some reasons of both views and give your own opinions.

    A:

           Humans are born gregarious animals. No matter we have an extraordinary high level of civilization or we just stayed in forests to hunt and eat fresh meat without cooking, we live in some certain societies which are in various kinds of organizations.  And therefore, we are taught to co-operate and live with other people, or we can’t survive in it. As I have said, I think that children’s learning being cooperative is better than just be taught to compete.

           Obviously, knowing how to compete is a very important skill in modern society. Competition is getting more and more furious as the economy grows in an unbelievable rapid speed. Everybody wants to compete for a better job or chance but it is not realistic for everybody who owns that will. Those fortunate jobs and chances are left to the strongest people who deserve them. So, many parents who want their children have great future become enthusiastic over teaching children the skills and concepts of competing with others.

           Yet, the society doesn’t need that many leaders while anxiously desires for useful adults (labors) who know about the cooperative things. Many recent researches and surveys show a very interest phenomenon, which is, the managers or the administrators are more willing to hire employees who know harmonize with colleagues and collaborate with co-agents.  Because people who are too competitive, in other words, aggressive are not always suitable for communicating with others, for they are thinking about winning matters a lot.  Children who taught to cooperative are relate well to other people. They can earn love, sympathy, friendship in a very simple easy way. Knowing how to cooperate and harmonize, they are the lubricant of this giant economic and social engine.

    In summary, our society lacks of cooperative elements other than leader elements. As leaders exert their abilities to accelerating the development of society, we need more cooperative people as basic elements to make a harmonious world to live in. Children are the future of human beings, I insist that they should be taught much more to co-operate while with a little bit more than necessary competitive things.

    3.15 NO.One

    Q:

       Many people think that the government should spend the large amount of money it is channeling into artistic and cultural projects on basic infrastructure projects instead. Do you agree or disagree?

    A:

       Basically, artistic and cultural developments represent that the country's civilization has come to certain range of prosperity. But meanwhile a good status of basic infrastructure will give every citizen a satisfied feeling of habitation. I do really doubt that people can live in such a "miraculous" place which has a well developed of cultural things but in a terrible situation of city conditions.

       Admittedly, spending a large sum of money in order to make progress in artistic and cultural is a distingue and noble-minded policy. But on the other hand, we need to set down to think over the advantages and disadvantages of making appropriation of transferring money which should be spent on city's beautification to some kind of virtual things. An old Chinese saying tells us a very principle rule of cultural and proprieties in human society. "Grain is the basic condition of music and poem." I think it's a very sapient apothegm. In most developing countries, especially some penniless rural areas, people need to fulfill their stomachs before they settle down to study and enjoy the beauties of arts, for the simple reason that they are the creatures who have to eat. Maybe basic infrastructure hasn't reach the importance of necessary, but it is very approaching. Suppose a government is supervising a city. Citizens do not have enough roofs to save them from the pitiless rain and storms but afford to buy the concert tickets which have 90 percent of discount from the government's sustentation fund. I will definitely sure that the mayor and parliament will be dismissed by the angry citizens.

       Unlike the point of view above, the government of developed country should spend most of their money in the spiritual things, that is, art and culture. Because they have a compatible situation of transferring their budget focuses from this to that. The people in wealthy areas don't need to worry about the food or clothing things while those poor farmers finding their breakfast for tomorrow. Therefore, arts and culture are what they anxiously pursuing and it is very wise to have that money spending on the artistic and cultural projects. Only if some other unfortunate calamities happen, citizens in the city mentioned above will predicatively uphold the administration of the bureau.

       In a sentence, it’s difficult and complex to support the each idea in such a simple way. It depends on the conditions that the city in, after all, basic infrastructure. If it’s good, we spend more on art, otherwise we go back to the infrastructure.

    July 08

    回家了

    各位亲朋好友...
    鄙人今天回家了
    回想起去年的今天,艰辛却又值得回首.
    在下要赶车啦,回再在写了.
    June 11

    我与倩的韩国家庭之行

    昨天晚上,突然很神奇地想带倩去一去我韩国学生的家里,感受一下异国家庭的气氛,所以就贸然说了出口...
    结果今天就早早9点多就打电话过去我学生了...
    虽然是一个多月没联系,但是依然感觉到这个家庭的热情与欢迎,呵呵...尤其是他们听说我带我女朋友过去...
    漫长的坐车与等车似乎很短暂.
    漫步在星河湾的绿树从阴中,呼吸着新鲜的带紫色小花,白色小花味道的空气,心情不由自主地好了起来.
    冰凉的荔枝,熟透的榴莲,清香的麦茶,这些来自尹家的热情的招待,让我们再一次感受到他们的好客与亲切,哎..毕竟是一个暑假建立起来的感情,一切都那么地真诚,那么地自然.能认识这么一个家庭,上个暑假的辛苦也就不那么重要了.
    始料不及的是,尹叔叔他们竟然带我们两个去到社区的会所吃晚饭.丰盛的夜宴,热烈的气氛让我们大家都十分享受,不过..呵呵...这么一来就打破了我和倩原定的品尝韩国地道家常菜的小小想法了...不过尹叔叔说了,下次还叫我和倩一起去,闵阿姨亲自下厨...
    离开之后,我和倩都发现,这种气氛,这种感觉是惬意两个字形容不了的...不同国家不同民族的风俗人情,的确让我们都感触良多.他们生活上的一点一滴都那么细致,精致...或许这些就是生活的品味与乐趣吧!
    只能和大家分享那么多啦...
    June 06

    明天就高考啦...我又老了一岁啦

    "今天是百年一遇的06年06月06日,一辈子就过这一回"
    庆幸的是,这么有意义的一天,有我的最爱陪伴在我身旁;
    同样也是今天,我完成我对她的第一个承诺...呵呵
     
    早上下的雨以及明天万众瞩目的高考,让我想起了我小学升初中的考试,大雨滂沱浑身湿透地躲在晒布路的M记里,喝着滚热的热朱古力;
    眨眼间,时光飞逝,升中考试,中考,高考....我已经在大学的校园里,与自己心爱的人漫步在校园的路上.
    也不知道是该感伤还是感叹...反正只能怪岁月的蹉跎
    也不知道是该感谢还是舒怀...也只有默默地珍惜
    真心祝福各位即将面临考验的各位师弟师妹,wish you good luck .god bless you guys.
    June 04

    图书馆中逛SPACE

    午饭过后(也就一个面包加一盒清凉茶)回到图书馆黑色的桌子前
    突然非常不想看书。。。超郁闷
    结果很鬼使神差地来到了旁边的电脑前
    电脑似乎很喜欢和我作对。。。慢到吐血。。。唉。。看来公共电脑就是这样的了
    不知怎么搞的突然想起去自己的SPACE看看,结果一看就一发不可收拾了。。。
    去了burning empire的space之后又辗转去了N个人的space。。。无论认识还是不认识的
    留下了N多废话。。。
    来大学两年了,看回以前高中同学现在的生活(虽然是管中窥豹)发现很多人都过得多姿多彩的
    感慨良多...真希望大家都过得好好的!
    自己似乎也算挺丰富的,但是不知怎的,总好像缺少一些东西,像是一种人生的缺失吧,却又始终不知道是什么.
     
    anyway,好在现在有小小倩一直陪伴在我身边.人生就应该满足了 I should be content!!!
     
    下面是最近发掘回来的一首老歌,曾经是最喜爱的,wish you like it
    hoobastank - The reason

    i'm not a perfect person
    as many things i wish i didn't do
    but i continue learning
    i never meant to do those things to you
    and so i have to say before i go
    that i just want you to know

    i've found a reason for me
    to change who i used to be
    a reason to start over new
    and the reason is you

    i'm sorry that i hurt you
    it's something i must live with everyday
    and all the pain i put you through
    i wish that i could take it all away
    and be the one who catches all your tears
    thats why i need you to hear

    i've found a resaon for me
    to change who i used to be
    a reason to start over new
    and the reason is you

    i'm not a perfect person
    i never meant to do those things to you
    and so i have to say before i go
    that i just want you to know

    i've found a reason for me
    to change who i used to be
    a reason to start over new
    and the reason is you
    i've found a reason to show
    a side of me you didn't know
    a reason for all that i do
    and the reason is you
    End
     
     
     
    June 03

    以前写的作业...同学们给点意见吧

    Story that I heard in my childhood

    Several days ago, one of my most important day in my life passed silently. and it’s my 20th birthday.

           For over twenty years, I have always been a happy kid until I recognized that I am a grown-up now. Though it’s too late for me to acknowledge that stupid truth, still I have to remind myself of that. Think over the stories and fairly tales which affected my childhood and built my cloud-castle, I find many shadows of the roles in my character eventually. Neither of my parents had told me anything about love, justice or freedom which is too hard to explain to a 10-year-old child, but though it must have been something teaching me those indescribable words. As a great teacher and a wonderful buddy, the story book taught us many things in their perfect words. The moral, hiding in the rows and columns of the pages, made me drown in the books and track the fantastic scenario.

           Even I am now over twenty years old, the memory of <<Monkey King>> still sometimes dragging me back to a fantastic world which there’s a super hero monkey. And of course, the stupid day-dreamer must be the monkey king and he is always trying hard to save the life from devil and demon. Reading the book, the innocent boy began to know what is justice and justness, and no matter how hard It would be, we should never give up to purchase them. So, I am in gratitude to the books who taught me not only how to be a man but a real man and engraved my character all the while.

           I would rather believe that the legend set up a great model for us to imitate than the story left us some bad results. But a resent research show that because many of the girls were deeply touched by the fairly tales like snow white, many of them can’t get out of the tales to the reality making their marriage bad. The study tells us for the girls are always dreaming that they are the princess and their husband or boyfriend should be as perfect as the prince in the story. They expect too high to let their fere make. The huge fall between the myth and reality make the girls feel extremely bad as if they are dropping from heaven to the heavy ground. While the girls are feeling sad, male readers like me are always complaining that there’s no such beautiful girl and we got no super power inwardly. It’s like the story made the dream and then broke the dream.

    In western countries, children are being told that there will be a Santa Clause who will give you a present at the night of Christmas day and put it in your long big red sock. It’s very beautiful story until they are too old to be lied to. It’s really cruel to tell the children you lied to them in the whole past ten or twelve years making them never trust their parents any more.

           Anyway, knowing something is better than knowing nothing. Our story books did a lot for us that we should never forget their contribution. Whatever the result be, every kid have their own dreaming and wonder land which is the greatest treasure in their life. I guess it’s the story’s work which makes me a kid in my mind.

           Writing this essay, many marvelous stories and screens appear in my mind, they are so beautiful that I can’t even abandon them in the corner and I finally realized that I am still in love with those friends.

           Wish you best, my friend!

    One of my favourite songs---The puppy song

    The Puppy Song  /Harry Nilsson

    Dreams are nothing more than wishes
    And a wish's just a dream you wish to come true

    If only I could have a puppy
    I'd call myself so very lucky
    Just to have some company
    To share a cup of tea with me
    I'd take my puppy everywhere
    La la la la I wouldn't care
    Then we'll stay away from crowds
    With sites that say no dogs allowed
    Oh we...I know we'd never bite he
    We...I know we'd never bite me

    If only I could have a friend
    Who sticks with me until the end
    And walk along beside the sea
    To share a bit of moon with me
    I'd take my friend most everywhere
    La la la la I wouldn't care
    And we'll stay away from crowds
    With sites that say no friends allowed
    Oh we...we'd be so happy to be...
    We...we'd be so happy to be together

    But dreams are nothing more than wishes
    And a wish's just a dream you wish to come true
    Dreams are nothing more than wishes
    (Your wish will come true)
    And a wish's just a dream(Your wish will come true)
    you wish to come true (Your wish will come true

    Cheer you up

    There are thirty sentences for cheer up you
    There are billions of people in the world , and every one of them is special .no one else in the world is like you .
    True excellence requires a worthy dream , a good idea of how to realize it . and the courage to risk failure to achieve it . 
    To reach your goals ,work hard ,participate ,practice, and do the best you can .
    Any thing in life is possible if you make it happen .and it’s never too late .
    Always bear in mind that you own resolution to succeed is more important than any other one thing.
    The Chinese word for crisis is divided into two characters , one meaning danger and the other meaning opportunity.
    Miracles sometimes occur ,but one has to work terribly for them .
    The secret of success is constancy of purpose .
    The biggest difficulty to someone is to conquer himself .
    Small opportunities are often the beginning of great enterprise .
    Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity .
    Genius is the ability to put into effect what is in your mind .
    The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today .
    Only those who have patience to do simple things perfectly ,ever acquire the skill to do difficult things easily .
    We can do anything we want to do if we stick to it long enough .
    Out of our beliefs are born deeds ,out of our deeds we form habits ;out of our habits grow our character; and on our character we build our destination.
    There is nothing permanent except change .
    The world is like a mirror; frown at it and it frown at you ; and it smiles too.
    No great aspiration ,on great genius .
    Goals determine what you’re going to be.
    Face up to life with smiles no matter what happens .
    Yesterday is a canceled check ;tomorrow is a promissory note ; today is ready cash-use it .
    The three most important words in the dictionary are will ,work and success .
    The hopeful man sees success where others see failure; sunshine where others see shadows and storms .
    Chance favors the minds that are prepared .
    The secret of success is to do the common things uncommonly well.
    Gain control of your time ,and you will gain control of your life .
    Success is largely a matter of holding on after others have let go .
    People can succeed at almost anything for which they have unlimited enthusiasm.
    Life doesn’t require that we be the best ,only that we try our best .

     

    May 24

    Illusions of country life

    The quiet life of country has never appealed to me. Grown up in those big towns which have more than eight million populations, I can’t stand the serenity of country side. I have always regarded the country as something you look at through the window of the car or something you occasionally visit during the weekend.

           Though it’s too early for a student to discuss this kind of question for I am still spending money from our parents and totally be a dependent kid, we still have rights to have our illusions about future. Somehow, a friend of mine told us that his parents were planning to spend the rest of their life in a village near their home town and managed to build a 3-story high house which has a perfect view from the lake. With no doubt, his parents are those rich people. Building a luxury house in a beautiful place is always just an imagination for those people who have to struggle for their living. Maybe someday a lottery may help them to achieve this fantasy, ha-ha.

           While talking, we were dragged into a wonder land of country life…

           Preconditions were set. Everyone has a lot of money that none of us has to worry about the money thing. Everyone has no kids to feed and of course has a beautiful wife^_^. Everyone has one or two automatic digital house and BMW car. If these conditions are prepared for everyone, I think 99percent of the earth people would surely like to live in country. Though we knew that it’s a really intriguing illusion, we still went to raptures.

           Threw out these unrealistic imaginations, we came back to our discussion in the real world. Clean atmosphere, the closeness to nature and the gentle pace of living are surely the first sights that come to our minds. Unfortunately it’s the part of the picture.

    We shall never forget the long and friendless summer evening with numerous bomb carriers like mosquitoes. We shall never fall to remember the vacuity after the first day excitement. Unfortunate people have to tolerate a four or five hours’ journey to do something that only can be done in big town.

           If you can forget the few pleasures of the country, you will find the city can provide us the best that civilizations can offer. Villages’ developing to cities shows us the truth. Perfect medical care, consummate services of education and traffic are the primary living conditions that attract us and I am proud to be a townsman. In fact, my city born and city bred soul tells me he prefer skyscrapers than tiny wooden house. He likes smooth big road more than muddy path. The crowd in the street gives him a cryptic warm and safe feeling.

    Though city life has a lot of strongpoint, it doesn’t mean that we don’t need to face its shortcomings, for example crime and messiness.

           Knowing my point of view, my friends were convinced by the reality and change to support me. Anyway, I am not arguing to purchase you to do any change about your country life, I just want to let others know my opinion.

           It’s only my illusions of country life, wish you like it.

    May 14

    穷困潦倒啊...

    5.1回来以后好象整个人泄气了一样,找不到原因.回想自己这半个多月的颓废,简直不可原谅
     
    六级就来了.tofel也只有半年了,亏自己还看历史军事小说看得那么爽
     
    刚刚打完电话给妈妈,呵呵,好在有我的神秘礼物,总算在这个特别的日子尽了一点点的孝,宽心一点;
     
    60万的赞助,15万的赞助...那么少优惠条件,简直不可想象,连我自己都不能帮他们做出预算,都不知道怎么说服别人,钱多也不是这么拿来扔;
     
    开网店的事,还是这样搁在一边...感觉很愧疚;
     
    社团的任务也告一段落了...就差开个大会换届了,剩下这么一个烂摊子,觉得自己不可原谅;
     
    昨晚被小白说了一下自己,似乎好像自己开学以来就是面无表情,目光呆滞...真的是这样吗?看来自己扮cool扮过头了:P
     
    又有2个月没编过程了...生疏了...软件学院"科班"出来的竟然编程烂到死,怎么都说不过去,也不知道为什么会搞成这样
     
    金星农庄的FLASH也是弄得这么半桶水...
     
    呜呼哀哉! 怎么没一件好事的啊!还是自己太烂了
    hate myself for being lazy so much!
    hate myself for being like a shit!
     
    背单词!